Young Adults, Further Education, University & Life Transitions.

Supporting young adults as they navigate university, further education, the transition into work and adult life.


In Upper Heyford, near Bicester, Oxfordshire & Online.

Growing up doesn't always feel how people imagine it will.

Whether you're preparing to leave home, settling into university, continuing into further education, starting your first job or simply trying to figure out where life is heading next, these transitions can feel exciting, overwhelming and uncertain all at the same time.

Many young people first meet me through Clinical Solution Focused Hypnotherapy, often during A-Levels for exam stress, anxiety or confidence. As life changes, the challenges often change too. Some continue working with me through counselling as they move into university, further education or their first professional role, providing continuity of support during one of life's biggest transitions.

Counselling provides a confidential space to better understand yourself, make sense of what you're experiencing and move through this stage of life with greater confidence and clarity.

FROM EXAMS TO ADULT LIFE

Supporting young people through every stage of their journey.


Many teenagers and young people first meet me through Clinical Solution Focused Hypnotherapy, often during A-Levels, for support with exam stress, anxiety, confidence, overthinking and feeling overwhelmed.

As life changes, the challenges often change too. Some continue working with me as they move into university, college, further education or their first job, where counselling and psychotherapy (and hypnotherapy) provides the opportunity to better understand themselves whilst continuing to move forward with confidence.

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A-Level Exams

Clinical Solution Focused Hypnotherapy (16+)

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Exam stress, anxiety, confidence, motivation, overthinking and preparing for important milestones.

University & Further Education

Settling into university, independence, homesickness, friendship dynamics, confidence, organisation and navigating one of life's biggest transitions.

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Graduating / Qualifying

Managing uncertainty, career decisions, increased responsibility and making sense of what comes next. Also there can be a sense of loss.

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First Job Post Qualifying

Building confidence, adapting to the workplace, managing expectations and developing a healthy balance between work and life.

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NAVIGATING CHANGE


One chapter ends. Another begins.

School often provides structure, routine and familiarity.

University, further education and the workplace often expect you to create that structure for yourself.

For many young adults, this is the first time they've had to organise their own time, manage deadlines independently, build new friendships, live away from home or make important decisions about the future. If you are neurodivergent i.e ADHD, or simply thrive with structure, these changes can sometimes feel even more noticeable.

Many parents tell me their son or daughter seemed to cope well at school, only to struggle once that structure disappeared.

Counselling and talking therapy isn't about having all the answers. It's about creating space to better understand yourself, navigate change and develop confidence in the person you're becoming.

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FOR PARENTS


Watching your son or daughter struggle can be incredibly difficult.

Whether they're preparing to leave home, settling into university or finding the transition into adult life harder than expected, many parents simply want to know they're being supported by someone who understands.

Counselling provides your son or daughter with a confidential space to explore what they're experiencing whilst offering reassurance that they're receiving compassionate, professional support during an important stage of life.

For young people aged 16–17, I also offer Clinical Solution Focused Hypnotherapy, often supporting exam stress, anxiety, confidence and preparing for A-Levels and other important milestones.

SOME OF THE CONVERSATIONS WE MIGHT HAVE


Every transition is different.

No two young adults arrive in therapy for exactly the same reason.

Some are preparing to leave home. Others are struggling to settle at university, feeling overwhelmed by deadlines, questioning their confidence or finding the transition into work harder than they expected.

Below are some of the conversations that often arise in therapy.

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Young student arriving at university accommodation with suitcase, representing independence and new beginnings.

University, Further Education, Independence & New Beginnings.

Moving away from home, homesickness, settling into university or college, living with housemates, finding your place, building friendships, managing your time, organisation, deadline overwhelm, procrastination and adjusting to a very different way of living and learning.

Together, we'll explore what's making this transition feel difficult, helping you build confidence, resilience and a stronger sense of belonging.

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University students walking together, representing confidence, friendships and finding your place

Confidence, Pressure & Finding Your Feet.

Academic pressure, comparison, perfectionism, fear of failure, imposter syndrome, overthinking, anxiety, low confidence and the pressure to feel as though you should already have life figured out.

Together, we'll explore the patterns beneath these experiences, helping you build greater confidence and trust in yourself.

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Young professional working in a café, representing graduation, career confidence and starting work

Graduation, Work & Adult Life.

Finishing university / further education, starting your first professional role, career uncertainty, increased responsibility, workplace confidence, balancing expectations, feeling "behind" or unsure about the future.

Therapy provides space to better understand yourself whilst navigating one of life's biggest transitions with greater clarity and confidence.

Andrew Selway, integrative counsellor, psychotherapist and Clinical Solution Focused Hypnotherapist based in Oxfordshire.
Andrew Selway, integrative counsellor, psychotherapist and Clinical Solution Focused Hypnotherapist based in Oxfordshire.

EXPERIENCE MATTERS


Hi, I'm Andrew (Andy)

Supporting young adults through education, university and the transition into working life.

Before becoming an integrative counsellor and psychotherapist, I spent over twenty years working in senior HR, talent and leadership roles, supporting graduates, coaching professionals and helping people navigate some of the biggest transitions in their careers.

I also understand these transitions personally, having experienced university, continued into further education and built a career across both corporate leadership and self-employment.

That combination means I understand not only the emotional challenges many young adults experience, but also the changing expectations of education, graduate recruitment and the modern workplace.

My role isn't to tell you what career to choose or what decisions to make. It's to help you better understand yourself, build confidence and move forward in a way that feels right for you.

Reflect. Understand. Move Forward.

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Image outlining other areas of support such as anxiety, overthinking, confidence, exam stress, people pleasing, perfectionism.

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Other areas of support.

٭ I offer hypnotherapy to under 18’s via my hypnotherapy brand HeadFirst Hypnotherapy™.

Ready to take the first step?

Whether you're a young adult looking for support or a parent exploring options, an initial consultation gives us the opportunity to talk about what's been happening, answer any questions you may have and decide whether working together feels like the right fit.

There is no pressure, no obligation and complete confidentiality.

A few things you may be wondering…